{"id":72,"date":"2012-02-26T05:00:26","date_gmt":"2012-02-25T22:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dheedayries.blog.binusian.org\/?p=72"},"modified":"2012-02-26T05:02:42","modified_gmt":"2012-02-25T22:02:42","slug":"miracle-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dheedayries.blog.binusian.org\/index.php\/2012\/02\/26\/miracle-words\/","title":{"rendered":"Miracle Words"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is actually my old post on my previous lost<\/del> web. \ud83d\ude00 Well, anway~ I wanna share this one with others again. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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\nI believe everyone has their own miracle words. Some said that their miracle words are : thank you, I love you, and sorry (well, these three words often appears…)<\/p>\n

Why do I post this article? Hmm, this is all about respecting others. We’re living under the same sky in this planet. We’ll be involved each other while working or by something else. We often forget the right of our close friends. Often neglect them by using a justification like “I think she\/He’ll be alright” or “She\/He will be just fine” or “She\/He’s my close friend, She\/He’ll understand me completely” Say it so, we have a very close friends, they still have their right to be respected. Due to many justification I have mentioned before, these might to be happen in every friendship :<\/p>\n

1. There is a condition when you need a help to your friend who is still in His\/Her room. Then you knock the door so loud. You call Him\/Her louder and louder. Sometime your friend needs privacy. And it might happen to you, needing privacy, a space to be alone just for once. A very honorable prophet, the best paragon of Muhammad\u00a0 SAW PBUH, gave us an example to ask permission if you are about to get in to somebody\u2019s house. Leave the house after you already knock it three times.<\/p>\n

2. Another condition. You always strive (insist maybe? Or force. Mmm, but I\u2019d rather use strive than force. What do u think then???) your friends to understand you. Friendship is not by request, it’s about giving to each other. The more you give others, the more you get from others. A wise man doesn’t lay up treasure. The more he gives to others, the more he has for his own (Lao Tze). If you are trying to understand others, then you’ll be understood as it given to you. Prophet Muhammad PBUH has ever gave us example too. The point of the example that he has gave us is a man\u2019s faith would be categorized as \u2018not yet perfect\u2019 if he\/she doesn\u2019t love his\/her brother\/sister as much as he\/she loves him\/herself.<\/p>\n

3. There is a condition which is extremely happened. Forget to say ‘thanks\/thank you’ after borrowing something. An expert said (insert link) :<\/p>\n

And a person who says “Thank you” to others is loved by people because saying “Thank you” makes other people happy. How about you? If you do a favor for someone and the person doesn’t say “Thank you,” you feel bad, don’t you? But, if he really appreciates it and says “Thank you” over and over again, you feel happy and you think he is a good person.<\/p>\n

So let’s look for happiness at any time, in any place, even in bad situation. You can find a lot of happiness. And, don’t be too shy to say “Thank you” to your father, to your mother, to your friends, to everyone and God. If you practice it in your everyday live, you will always be happy. Keep this in mind, “Thank you” is a miracle word which makes you happy and makes others happy.<\/p>\n

4. Another simple thing… Saying ‘sorry’ for every mistakes even it’s just a small mistake. Sorry won’t change the past, it can affect the future. A word sorry doesn’t make you inferior, on the contrary, this word makes you generous. Others will be very pleased to hear that. Why don\u2019t you try it? \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

5. When you ask for a help to your friend. Please use this word \u2018please\u2019. It\u2019s not only about a politeness but also respecting others. Your friend is not your accomplice. Please make others feel free \u2013 willingly to help you. You ask Him\/Her for a favour, don\u2019t you? So, show a bit politeness to ask even to your close friend.<\/p>\n

Well, all your friends deserve to be respected. Let\u2019s try to respect others feeling. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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